A number of my clients see me while in individual or couples therapy. And many of them come to me through referrals from therapists who are glad to use me as a resource for their clients. The therapist may not be comfortable — or even feel competent — talking to clients about specific sexual concerns. Even when the practitioner feels entirely competent and comfortable talking about sex, the client may prefer to have those conversations with someone other than their regular therapist. For many clients, talking to their therapist about the nitty-gritty details of sex may feel too exposing.